Next Day
Hey y'all. Thanxx for the great comments you left, I appreciate them all. Sorry I have not responded or reposted 'till now. This weekend was extremely busy (but in a very good sort of way) and now I am in Philly on a work trip. But to wrap things up (I think), I got ahold of S the next day. She was in good spirits as was I. I told her about the email (which she did not see yet) and she said ok. Meaning, it sounded like she was in agreement with my pay solution. I did not bring up the court thing or anything else. I did let her know again about the money she owes for Pre-K. So, at the moment, it looks like everything is ok. Of course, she could still take me to court. And part of me wants her too (the dark part of me that is).
Buzz, I appreciate your thoughts and have thought them myself multiple times. I do not think it is very likely and court would give me full custody or even primary custody unless I can prove her to be a crack head or something. However, I am going to start researching it. I also decided to put the girls on my insurance. Even if she does end up getting some with the new job. I don't want to take another chance of this happening again. Ok, tired now. g'nite!

4 Comments:
Good for you!!!
I have debated the insurance stuff with the ex too. She dropped by last night to discuss what I owed her for a couple doc visits recently (because she has shitty insurance). Almost $600 out of pocket for the boys doc appts (allergy test for E and the arm incident with K). She might as well not have any insurance.
The custody thing would be hard to do. I think it can only make for a bunch of trouble and hostility. I am sure you will try to shield your girls from it. If you go for it... good luck!
you sound pretty strong and optimistic today and that is good... you have to know that you will fight over this some more times, because some people (like S) will keep bringing stuff like this... hope you dont have to fight anymore though.
Just cause she's not actually ON crack...
Well, good for you. You dealt with the immediate problem at hand.
It's really sad that I can't even get shocked anymore because I fully expect her to keep pulling this kind of shit. At this point I'd be shocked if she did something reasonable (but then the shock would give way to suspicion).
Love to you and the girls. Hang in there.
-Kathryn
thanxx y'all
Kathryn if that happened, I might drop of a heartattack.
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